The “phenomenon” of men supposedly becoming increasingly lonely is gaining popularity among people, especially on social media. This is allegedly not by choice, and many men say that it is more difficult to find a partner, and some blame women for this. However, a woman from California argues that the “Male Loneliness Epidemic” is a problem men create by being rude and failing to take accountability for their actions. That is why many people, especially women, prefer not to have a male partner or be very careful when going on a date.
On TikTok, user mikothestallion uploaded a video ranting about unhinged men. Not only that, but this California woman says that the main reason for the “Male Loneliness Epidemic” is that many men are rude and entitled. OP even gave examples, which may seem trivial. Still, if people act like this from the start, it’s clear that it will only get worse later on. In one of her examples, OP mentioned on a date that she is a fan of Sanrio characters. To this, her date branded her as childish for that.
On another occasion, OP was on a date with someone who wasn’t talking to her. So she asked, “Are you going to ask me something about my interests or hobbies?“. That question seems standard when you try to meet someone. However, OP’s date straight up answered that he wasn’t interested. Fortunately, in both cases, mikothestallion got up and left, leaving the guy behind.
‘A guy got upset with me because I collect Yu-Gi-Oh cards. MIND YOU HE MATCHED WITH ME BECAUSE HE LIKED YUGIOH ๐ญ๐ญ I AM CONFUSED‘ shared dawnslullaby1.
Similar to dawnslullaby1, many other users shared their experiences with extremely rude men. These individuals are so unpleasant that they should stay away from everyone, not just women.
‘As a gay man, they’re harassing us too! I worked with a guy who harassed every girl on our team, and they all reported him. Their solution was to put him with me. Then he immediately stuck his hands up my shirt and massaged my back. Are any of them straight?‘ commented kydelka ๐ฎ ๐.
We are aware that not all men are like this. Yet, those who act in this way should remain alone for the rest of their lives. These people are not victims of an epidemic because the rest of the people isolate them. It is more likely that, as a result of their own decisions, they end up ostracized.