Jennifer Lopez’s romantic past is coming back to haunt her, again. The I’m Real singer recently spoke out about her former romantic encounters and ex-husbands, and it is not sitting well with at least one of her exes.
J.Lo’s love life has not been the highlight of her life so far, especially after four failed marriages. However, it seems like Jennifer may have left out a few details concerning her past splits. J.Lo reportedly has a tendenacy to avoid accountability in her failed romances, and allegedly tends to place the blame all on the men in her life.

But, one of her ex husband is not letting her get away with it any longer. At least not where he is concerned. So he has just turned the tables in a way that no one saw coming. Jennifer Lopez’s first husband from the late 90s, Ojani Noa, came out swinging over the weekend with an explosive social media rant that left fans stunned.
His message was loud and clear. He’s tired of being painted as one of the men who “didn’t know how to love” Jennifer Lopez, and he’s not letting her slide this time. Noa, now 51, didn’t hold back as he called out Lopez after her recent confession that she’s “never been loved” because her exes were “not capable.”

Jennifer Lopez’s Victim Card Cancelled By Ojani Noa
The New York Post reports that according to Noa, the real problem wasn’t him. It was her. He even spilled some revealing tea and accused the singer of cheating during their short-lived marriage. Ojani alleges that J.Lo cared more about Hollywood than the relationship that helped start it all.
“Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card,” Noa, 51, began his message. “The problem is not us. Not me. The problem is you. You’re the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants.”

Noa claims that he did everything for Jennifer. He stood by her, moved for her, and loved her unconditionally. However, it wasn’t enough because Lopez craved life in the “fast lane” choosing fame over loyality and love.
His angry social media post seemingly reveals he still has some strong feelings about the way Jennifer reportedly did in. And if his claims are true, J.Lo’s habit of reinventing herself may not just be a career move. It might extend to rewriting her relationship history too.
Noa’s outburst reportedly comes on the heels of Lopez’s latest divorce from Ben Affleck, finalized earlier this year. That makes four marriages down and countless high-profile romances in between.
While Lopez often talks about her search for love, fans are starting to notice a pattern. Many are calling out the singer for constantly painting herself as the heartbroken one while her exes become the villains in her ongoing love saga.
Looks like J.Lo’s “victim era” might have just hit a sour note. When your first husband calls you out decades later with this much passion, maybe the love story wasn’t the problem.