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Home»Human Interest»Man Tries to Take Over Woman DJ’s Set at New York Party, Gets Thrown Out by Security: ‘He Wouldn’t Have Done That to a Man’

Man Tries to Take Over Woman DJ’s Set at New York Party, Gets Thrown Out by Security: ‘He Wouldn’t Have Done That to a Man’

He turned the knobs

Alejandro JosanBy Alejandro JosanAugust 13, 20263 Mins Read
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A male DJ in New York City, New York, was shown attempting to hijack another woman’s DJ set and party by claiming the whole event was his. He then touched and moved the knobs on the DJ’s set, eventually earning him a security throw-out.

@hopestarxxxx

Last Thursday, BLACKSTAR hosted its 3rd event ever in the Backroom of Pianos. Everything was going fine, until a man I did not know came onto the stage and began insisting that it was “his event”. Even after explaining to him that I had booked this space for the entire night, he still insisted that it was his event. I tried to ignore him and focus on my set, but his presence on stage made me deeply uncomfortable. He was overly close, touched the decks, tried to play his own music, started recording my track IDS, and took pictures of me and another DJ as we were playing. These clips are only 2 and a half minutes of a 25 minute interaction. For the safety of myself and the other DJ, I tried to be polite and attempted to diffuse the situation on my own. I did not want to cause a scene or disrupt the party, especially as I was playing my set. I continued to ignore him in hopes that he would leave, which he did for a short period of time. However, he eventually returned during the next DJ’s set. The situation escalated when he began touching the decks. At this point I pulled him aside so that the next DJ could play her set without his disturbance. I then learned that he was the event organizer of the event happening upstairs that night. People had left his event upstairs and came to my event in the Backroom. He insisted that because “his collective” was now at my party, that the event was now “his”. After going back and forth, I realized that he was unwilling to leave. I informed him that I was leaving to call security. I then returned with security who had him removed. It’s frustrating enough navigating nightlife as a young black woman let alone a new event organizer. I don’t doubt that he would had conducted him the same way if we were men. Female DJs and event organizers deserve to do their jobs in nightlife without being concerned for their safety. It’s really a shame that the night had to progress this way.

♬ original sound – hopestarxxxx

The tense moment was shared online by HOPESTARXX. She is a DJ who often shares highlights of her sets while in the studio and in venues. The clip attached above became her biggest one yet, garnering 1.1 million views, 159,600 likes, and more than 2,700 comments.

The New York DJ was performing at the Backroom of Pianos, a very prominent club in Manhattan. During his set, a man approached her, who was subsequently identified as Cartier.mp7 (Cartier), and told her it was her event. Confused, HOPESTARXX told him, “What do you mean, your event?“

“Uhh… It’s my event from the front room, upstairs, and the Backroom,” Cartier said. “But overall, this is my event. Not even like that, but I know this is your event, too. I’m doing the sound for that [the other event] and this [HOPESTARXX’s event], too.”

Turning Knobs

The woman knew, for a fact, that each of Pianos’ areas is booked separately. She told him she had booked the Backroom for the night up to 4 a.m. Additionally, she also knew the actual sound engineer for her event, which she told Cartier about. The man didn’t budge.

“Overall, I’m not even really doing anything. I’m just making sure you [expletive] is good and whoever comes up is good,” he added. He then told HOPESTARXX that he was going to hop on at 1:35 a.m.

The female DJ wasn’t a fan of that, and a back-and-forth ensued. She ignored it when he asked if he could hop on at 1:45 a.m. instead, and then Cartier left. Briefly. He came back when the other female DJ began her set. Things got heated, as the clip showed Cartier touching the equipment and turning the knobs.

HOPESTARXX tried to fix the turned knobs, but the man wouldn’t stop. She eventually called a security guard, and the New York man was removed.

Reactions

The clip sparked multiple reactions, mainly from viewers who were adamant about calling the male DJ out. One said, “He wouldn’t have done that to a man.” Another one commented, “So he was jealous and tried to sabotage you.”

Others took issue with how Cartier continued to escalate. One wrote, “I lost it when he started turning the knobs.” Another one added, “Him acting like he was DJing is crazy.”

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HOPESTARXX explained in the video’s description that Cartier was organizing the upstairs event. People preferred the Backroom, leading to what was seen in the clip. He ended up apologizing online.

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Alejandro is an experienced writer across gaming, entertainment, crime, and human interest. He has a Master's degree in Creative Writing and is a horror junkie.

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