90 Days Fiancé Kim Menzies rejects Usman “Sojaboy” Umar’s mom’s call to make her a second wife, and she’s willing to end the relationship with that. Last week, the couple went to seek the blessing of Sojaboy’s mom which is a traditional requirement before they can wed.
It’ll be the second time Usman is taking an older American woman to his mom. In his country, Nigeria, it’s uncanny for a man to marry someone older. Hence his family’s reaction.
But this time around, Usman Umar’s mom may reject Kim Menzies if she doesn’t agree with her demand. Kim and Usman did everything right and even got a cow as a gift for the family. When the cow arrived, it was viewed as a bribe — not as a good wish.
That singular act was also a contributor to the couple leaving the family meeting in Nigeria sad. However, the deal breaker for Kim Menzies is Usman Umar’s mom’s criteria for them to get married.
Sojaboy must take a first wife before he can marry Kim. Things are going south for the 52-year-old and 33-year-old lovers.
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Usman Umar’s Mom’s Demand May End Things Between Sojaboy and Kim Menzies
First is the only position Kim Menzies can settle for and she’s not joking about it as she rejects Usman Umar’s mom’s demand. The couple addressed the situation in a PEOPLE exclusive, with Usman speaking first.
He thought his family would soften if he tells them that Kim would allow him to marry a second wife for the purpose of having kids. In his words:
“I was thinking that would touch them,” Usman said. “But they just turned it upside down.”
But there’s nothing he can do about it as that’s what their culture permits. In other words, he can’t go against his mom’s wishes.
Kim Menzies later spoke up about Usmar Uman’s mom’s demand by comparing it to her past relationships. She explained that the first wife position was important to her.
“Getting the title of the first wife is so important to me because in previous relationships, I always came second. Always. I was always pushed to the side, and I’m not gonna let that happen to me again.”
She hates the idea of being the second one again because she knows her worth. The couple’s final resolution is unknown at this time.
But you can catch up with 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? on Sunday nights at 8 p.m. ET on TLC.