90 Day Fiancé’s Mary Demasu-ay is having a breakdown on social media. We all know her and her significant other Brandan from The Other Way spinoff. When speaking of these two everyone brings up two factors: their codependency and their insecurity. You may recall us speaking of how they facetime while using the bathroom. These two have no real relationship experience outside each other and that presents problems in the relationship.
Though they are together now and have no need to worry, the insecurity carries on and is clearly eating at her. We do want to offer a trigger warning, as she she uses some self hate speech some may find troubling.
I hate myself for overthinking, I don’t like how l overthink I don’t like being jealous and being insecure. I understand why all people hate me, and I’m sorry for being me.
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90 Day Fiancé’s Mary Demasu-ay’s Has Breakdown On Socials And It’s Scaring Her Fans
To give some insight into the insecurity, we have some examples. When Brandan was visiting her in the Philippines, she broke up with him because they sat him next to a female on the plane. She even had issues with him having a female dentist or even seeing females from his own family. Yeah, it is a pretty serious case of insecurity. But someone needs to tell her that she can work on that. It can be easy to get into a hate cycle and feel useless, but the best thing you can do is try to address and learn to handle it better.
Honestly, it is incredibly sad to see just how broken up she has become with herself. Many fans online are scared she may even try to hurt herself. Mary Demasu-ay, if you are reading this, you can do it. You are not defined by your insecurity. And even though it may feel like a larger-than-life problem, we promise it isn’t and more people are insecure than you think. You are not alone in that, Mary. And it does get easier, too. We promise.
