In a rare display of open-mindedness in today’s hyper-polarized political climate, an elderly man in Wisconsin arrived at a public hearing prepared to speak in favor of Assembly Bill 104, which seeks to prohibit gender transition medical interventions for individuals under 18 years of age in Wisconsin.
The man, who had planned to oppose legislative changes related to trans healthcare, sat through seven hours of testimony before deciding he could no longer stand by his original views. When it was finally his turn to speak, he instead admitted that listening to the testimonies had changed his mind. In a moment that stunned the room, he simply said he felt differently now and asked to be excused.
The moment quickly spread across social media, where many praised the man for his willingness to learn. As one Redditor put it: “That is the mark of an intelligent person.” Another added, “Being able to admit you’re wrong is a special trait nowadays.”
While it’s common to see people double down on their beliefs even in the face of overwhelming evidence, this man took a different approach. Instead of tuning out opposing viewpoints, he actually listened—and changed his stance as a result.
One Reddit user summed it up perfectly: “To be an elderly person like this, and able to listen to new information from people with firsthand knowledge, while simultaneously developing thoughts and opinions based on that to grow, is amazing to see in real time.”
His transformation is particularly striking because, as another commenter pointed out, “This is not someone who ‘never really thought about it much’ being swayed. This is a die-hard.” And yet, faced with the real stories of trans individuals and their families, he chose empathy over ideology.
A Rare Moment of Growth in Politics
Many online praised the man’s humility, noting how rare it is for anyone—young or old—to admit they were wrong, let alone in such a public setting. “It never ceases to baffle me how rare this is now…” one person wrote. Another observed, “People have no humility these days.”
Others pointed out the larger implications of his decision. “This is a powerful example of how listening can change minds.”
In a time where political discourse often feels like a battle with no winners, this moment stood out as a refreshing example of what can happen when people actually listen to each other. As one commenter put it: “Just when you think that the current climate is terrible and American society is entrenched, this gentleman has got to come along and mess it up further—with HOPE!”
Has Assembly Bill 104 Been Passed?
A decision has not yet been reached regarding Assembly Bill 104. Yesterday, Representative Lisa Subeck released the following statement:
“Republicans are all too willing to use kids as political pawns, putting their extreme agenda ahead of our children and families. The medical community and the data agree that gender-affirming care saves lives, and the harm caused by banning this critical care is all too real.
We heard 9 hours of testimony from children and families who would be harmed by this dangerous and unnecessary legislation, yet Republicans are fast tracking it with a vote the very next morning.
We want trans kids and their families to know that we have your backs and will do everything we can to ensure that you have access to the health care that you need.”
