Despite being exes, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s ties never seem to be completely severed, and likely never will. The couple married in 2022 and officially divorced in January 2025, but even after months apart, JLo refused to think of a life without Ben in it, that is, until now.
Recent reports indicate that Jennifer Lopez is at her wits’ end with Ben Affleck, again. It has been a rough road since the two first called it quits, and it looks like things have not changed much. In public, Affleck has brushed off his divorce from Lopez as if it were no big deal. His remarks have often allegedly left the I’m Real hitmaker in tears.
However, sources close to the former couple claim the real details regarding the former couple’s post-divorce life have Jennifer Lopez fuming at her ex, and she has had about all she is going to take.
Star Magazine reports that Ben Affleck has allegedly cut off all contact with Jennifer Lopez. The Accountant star is said to have started to ignore Jen altogether. At times, Jlo has been known to reportedly flood Ben with numerous calls and texts. But Affleck seems to have ghosted her completely and fails to respond to Jennifer at all.
“She’s stopped leaving messages or texts because he never answers,” says the source. “It’s so demeaning and rude.”
Jennifer Lopez Gets Ben Affleck’s Rude Message
When Jennifer did try to connect with him on his birthday, insiders say he blew it off. For Lopez, who prides herself on controlling every aspect of her career and image, the radio silence is infuriating. It’s not just about their personal split. The singer claims that there are big financial and professional loose ends that tie them together, whether they like it or not. Business needs to be handled.
At this time, they are still trying to sell off their Beverly Hills marital home, and that alone has numerous details that need to be discussed. Sources claim Ben’s attitude is driving Jen crazy. She doesn’t understand why he chooses to make things so painful. Having to navigate it all while Affleck ignores her only makes everything worse.
So much for the fairytale that Jennifer Lopez longs to have with Ben Affleck. Those days appear to be long gone, and Ben is sending Jen a clear message. He seems perfectly content to let his team handle everything, while Lopez is left fuming that she can’t get through to the man she thought was her happy ending.
They have a lot of financial entanglements and business left to handle, and the tension is only heating up. But Ben Affleck’s message to Jennifer Lopez is painfully honest. Whether she likes it or not, the time has come for her to move on.
