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The 43-year age gap between Debbie Aguero and Oussama from 90-Day Fiancé has not deterred the two from staying together. The couple blew fans away with their adorable love story when they debuted on season 4 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. However, their relationship on the show has slowly unraveled. With each episode, the viewers can see how the pair are worlds apart in what they each want from the relationship.
Issues With Oussama and Debbie’s Relationship
While the two may have initially connected over their shared passion for the arts, they have virtually disagreed over everything in their relationship. On top of that, Debbie has had a hard time adjusting to life in Morocco. Things worsened when she had to go live in Oussama’s family home. However, Debbie still had bigger problems to face. This became evident when she learned Oussama’s entire family expected her to bring him to the US. This situation arose even though she had told Oussama her move to Morocco was permanent.
Debbie reiterated her stance to Oussama’s family, and they reacted coldly. However, her conversation with Oussama later in the episode left most fans terrified. Debbie pushed to talk about their future as she and Oussama spent time on his family farm. Still, Oussama shut her down while he buried himself in his painting. When Debbie insisted they have the conversation, Oussama snapped at her, calling her “crazy” and accusing her of “mental sickness.” He then gave her a make-or-break ultimatum regarding their future. He said:
“Our plan is you will come here and bring me to the USA. I will go to work there, and we will start our life there. This is our plan, and from this day, I will never change it. If you don’t accept this, we can stop all this.”
Oussama’s outburst visibly stunned Debbie, but the episode ended on a cliffhanger without seeing Debbie’s reaction to the threat. However, fans have been reacting to the episode and have not had very nice things to say about Oussama.
90 Day Fiancé Ousamma Only Cares About Himself
Before she met Oussama, Debbie had been single for 12 years and was happy to remain that way for as long as possible. However, when Oussama contacted her online, they instantly connected over their shared love for the arts. Their friendship quickly blossomed into a romance, and Debbie later flew to Morocco to meet Oussama in person. The trip resulted in Oussama asking Debbie to be his wife, which she gladly accepted. Despite warnings from her two children, Debbie uprooted her life in the US to move to Morocco to be with Oussama permanently.
Sadly, Oussama’s actions throughout the season have shown him to be self-centered and only focused on what he intends to get out of the relationship. Following his outburst at Debbie during the latest episode, it became clearer that his main goal was for Debbie to take him to the US. Despite Debbie’s sacrifices, Ousamma has shown no regard for that. Oussama only sees Debbie as a means to an end, and his antics are quite scary and mean during their discussion.
90 Day Fiancé Debbie Should Go Back Home
Although Debbie and Oussama seemed to have a strong connection in the show and quickly became the fan-favorites, their relationship has stalled and even regressed in recent episodes. Apart from their shared love for the arts, the two don’t seem to have any chemistry and have grown distant with each episode. Unlike other couples on the show, the two have hardly shown any physical connection or gotten intimate on the show.
Debbie and Oussama’s relationship has been strangely odd, and there is no basis for them to remain together, especially after Oussama’s recent outburst. One user Definitely Desi aptly captured the thoughts of most of the Reddit users when they commented,
“It’s time to go home. It’s okay that her kids were right. It’s okay she followed her heart. Now, she needs to leave. He got weird. I even saw his eyes follow the same direction at one point!”
Many 90-Day Fiancé fans rooted for Debbie and Oussama during the season’s earlier episodes when they seemed to have a genuine connection. Many fans wanted to believe that finding love was possible at any age. To conclude, fans haven’t gotten the happy ending they badly wanted. Still, there is a lot of joy that Debbie hadn’t gone too deep before Oussama was unmasked by his family.