Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez‘s complicated marital relationship doesn’t look to be getting any easier on either of them. JLo has been forced to face some harsh realities about her marriage to Ben, which has been more challenging than she even wants to admit.
Despite the shattering of her heart by Ben Affleck, Jennifer Lopez’s resilience is a testament to her strength. While she may put on a brave and happy face in public, behind closed doors, the ‘I’m Real’ hitmaker is dealing with her devastation in her own way.
Sources close to Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez tell InTouch that Ben’s latest actions have shattered Jen. He failed to show up for her 55th birthday party or acknowledge the couple’s second wedding anniversary. This is a move she never expected, and which hurt her deeply.
‘It’s just depressing that Ben couldn’t find the time or inclination to be there and support Jennifer. She would have welcomed it” stated the insider.
“Jennifer’s been putting on a brave face through it all,” says a source. “She never expected to be spending her summer alone. This isn’t where she thought she’d be at this point in her life.”
Jennifer Lopez’s Pals Support Her Through The Heartbreak Of Losing Ben Affleck
Despite the impending divorce, Jennifer Lopez is not alone in her struggle. She is surrounded by close friends who provide unwavering support. But it is not enough to heal from the heartache caused by Ben Affleck.
Ben is determined to move forward. He has taken steps to buy a new home and is eager to get the papers signed so they can both start their new lives. The source claims that Ben rarely even takes Jen’s calls anymore.
“Ben wants out of the marriage. He’s just biding his time and getting things in order before he makes the official break,” adds the source. “Chances are, he’ll do the gentlemanly thing and let Jennifer file first. Ben’s allowing Jennifer time to be on her own and feels that he’s been set free.”
As the end of their marriage looms, Jennifer Lopez has made a final, somewhat desperate request to Ben Affleck. She has allegedly asked Ben to participate in a few more staged events together, a request that underscores the tension as they navigate their final exit strategy before their public announcement.
For now, Ben Affleck will oblige Jennifer Lopez’s request. However, he likely will only allow Jen to stall the process for a while. The papers are ready and waiting. Ben is trying to be kind at this point, but he’s bound to hit his breaking point soon.
