Why didn’t 90 Day Fiancé‘s Gabe tell Isabel he’s transgender? Gabe Pagoba is dating Isabel Posada, but he didn’t tell her about his transition. He is planning to move to Colombia to be with her and her two children. This actually triggered a lot of people who wanted to know why he kept that part secret. Well folks, times have changed. The world generally sees it as up to the individual to tell or not.
Another reality is that the discussion of gender is very personal to some people. Come to find out, he does inform people, just not directly. He tends to lead them to his social medias, where he is very open about that part of himself.
Why Didn’t 90 Day Fiancé’s Gabe Tell Isabel He’s Transgender?
Via Screenrant:
“However, 90 Day Fiancé‘s Gabe didn’t tell Isabel right away that he was transgender. In an interview with Entertainment Tonight, Gabe responded to fan criticism over him hiding the truth from Isabel when he first met her. The 90 Day Fiancé star says he kissed Isabel when they met at a club in Columbia, and for the fans who think he should have told her he’s transgender first, Gabe says, “I 100% should have.” However, he said he wasn’t sure how to tell her, and everything happened very fast. He also explained that typically when he meets someone, he will give them his social media so that they can see for themselves that he’s trans without him having to tell them.”
So do you agree or disagree with Gabe’s reasons for not sharing that fact? I feel like most people would want to know, but the world is changing. I feel like there is no side of this we can fall on without sounding like an ally, which we are. So for those reason alone, we are going to stand clear of this. It feels like grounds for things to spiral pretty quickly in that discussion. As long as their partners don’t mind, it is on them what they reveal or don’t reveal to them.
Like we said, it’s a different world now.