A lot of women, if not all, have to go through disgusting situations where they get harassed by men. Unfortunately, these situations can happen anywhere. Women can’t even catch a break. A new disgusting situation occurred when a creepy San Diego man kept making sexual gestures at a young woman. In a video shared by the victim, she asked people if they could identify the man since she filmed him doing the act. Apparently, they were sitting at a red light, and instead of looking ahead of him, he decided to sexually harass her. You can see him looking at the woman with his tongue placed between two of his fingers as he kept making a licking movement. It’s easy to understand what he meant by this.
Not only did the San Diego woman have to go through this, but it also kept happening for around five minutes since the light was red for some time. So he was harassing her and didn’t mind doing this for a long time. What is even more infuriating is how he kept smiling at her while doing this gesture. It almost looked like he was proud of what he was doing. This is the face of someone who believes they won’t meet any consequences. Unfortunately, the victim shared that she filmed the man’s car when he was driving away, but her phone didn’t save the video. So she doesn’t have his license plate. This is why she asked the internet to help her find him, as the only detail she knows is that he was driving a blue sedan. Hopefully, she would be able to find him soon.
People Reacting to the Creepy San Diego Man
A lot of people were disturbed after they watched what the San Diego creep kept doing. Most of those who sympathized with the victim were women. Since such a situation happens a lot to women, one woman asked, “Why can’t they just leave us alone?” That’s a good question. Another woman sympathized with the victim as well and said, “Disgusting‼ Girl I’m so sorry that’s horrible.” More women kept commenting, including one who brought up the man vs. bear discourse. “The bear. We choose the bear,” she wrote. Well, if most men behave like this toward women, then the bear is definitely a better companion. Since some comments (mostly written by men) told the woman she could have just ignored him, one woman shared her own experience as she wrote:
“My husband‘s best friend did that to me one time. I told my husband. He said, oh, he was just drunk. Don’t pay any attention to him. I looked at my husband dead in the eye, and ”aid either you can take care of it or I will take care of it, he’s your friend. It’s your choice. I’m divorced now.”
Aside from hateful comments blaming the San Diego woman, most of them applauded her for speaking up. “I don’t know who this is but I am LOVING seeing these young women refuse to accept this behavior. Wish I had your courage as that age,” one person wrote. One woman also shared how she deals with these situations as she said, “This is why i refuse to make eye contact with any car next to me. They could literally be honking trying to get my attention cuz i have a flat tire or sumn but i won’t take the risk.” There was, however, a very disgusting comment as someone wrote, “What seems to be the problem? He’s offering his services to you. You can either accept or decline and move on with your life.” This kind of person is the reason why women don’t feel safe.