Many police officers are protecting the streets and upholding the law, but there are a bunch of asshole cops out there doing everything but stopping crime. Too often we see officers’ busy work and big egos clash in uncomfortable ways. This video making rounds on Reddit is exactly that, and it’s pissed everyone off. The man, seated quietly on a bench, was attempting to pay respects to a deceased loved one by lighting candles. What should have been a peaceful moment of remembrance devolves into another officer-with-an-ego situation.
As you can see, the police officer approaches the man, questioning his intentions without attempting to understand the situation. He accuses the individual of “reckless burning” and insists the candles be extinguished. When the man calmly refuses to comply without further explanation or clarity, the officer escalates matters, shining a spotlight directly in his face. His justification? A vague assertion that the man could be a threat because he didn’t know if he was “a criminal.”
Respect to the man for remaining composed, explaining his purpose and politely requesting a supervisor. When the officer’s superior arrived, her demeanor was notably more measured, and she quickly de-escalated the situation. Nevertheless, the incident has drawn sharp criticism, with many accusing the officer of unnecessary aggression and harassment.
Comments from the Reddit thread where the video was initially shared reflect widespread frustration. One user noted the absurdity of the situation: “Why aren’t the candles lit? Because he made me put them out.” Others pointed out how even the supervising officer seemed bewildered by her colleague’s behavior, though she refrained from directly addressing his actions.
Critics noted systemic issues in law enforcement, arguing that incidents like these are indicative of larger problems. As one comment noted: “This cop’s behavior isn’t about safety—it’s about power.” Another questioned the low entry requirements for becoming a police officer in the United States, sparking broader conversations about training standards and accountability.
This incident highlights concerns many have voiced about law enforcement in America: the prioritization of control over understanding, and the lack of empathy shown in interactions with the public. While the man’s calm and respectful demeanor averted a more severe escalation, how many times have we seen police turn nasty for less?
