Jennifer Lopez is heartbroken that her marriage to Ben Affleck did not work out as she had hoped. However, that doesn’t mean she will sit back and watch life pass her by. Now that Ben has made it clear he is ready to jump back into dating, Jennifer is countering in a big way.
Ben Affleck made it clear to his estranged ex, Jennifer Lopez, that it was time for him to move on. The Gone Girl star seemingly rubbed it in by cleaning up his act, dressing nicer, and caring about his appearance—all things Jennifer begged Ben to do when they were together.
It caused Jennifer Lopez pain to see Ben Affleck doing everything he wouldn’t do for her. So now JLo is giving Ben a taste of his own medicine. Sources close to the I’m Real singer tell In Touch that Jen is following in Mariah Carey’s footsteps by rebounding with not just one much younger man to date but several.
The insider says, “She’s already given the go-ahead for these hunks to be auditioned and served up for her. Jennifer was very respectful and totally loyal to Ben even after he walked out on her, but now all bets are off. She’s desperate to forget about Ben and get over the anguish he’s put her through. So, Jen feels the best way to do this is to have some no-strings-attached fun with hot young guys.”
Ben Affleck Pushes Jennifer Lopez To Move On
During a recent interview for Interview magazine, Jennifer Lopez admitted feeling lonely, unfamiliar, and scared. “It feels sad. It feels desperate.” Jen adds that going through a divorce is never easy.
“When you sit in those feelings and go, ‘These things are not going to kill me,’ it’s like, actually, I am capable of joy and happiness all by myself. Being in a relationship doesn’t define me. I can’t be looking for happiness in other people.”
But there comes a time when you have to move on, no matter how much your heart still breaks. That time has reportedly arrived for Jennifer Lopez. Her pals have been telling her to get back out there, and now she finally feels ready.
The JLo insider reveals that the singer’s ego needs a “serious reboot.” So being with hot guys is ‘great medicine.’ “They will fawn all over her and make her feel young and sexy and desirable again,” the insider explains.
Several young guys are lining up to date the 55-year-old bombshell. One suitor, rapper Drake, is chomping at the bits for a date with Jennifer Lopez. Jennifer admits she is not looking for anything serious, just someone to have fun with.
If they are young and hot, so be it; why not? If they also happen to make her ex, Ben Affleck, even a little jealous, better yet. “There is nothing like making the one who left you regret it, even if it just for a second or two,” adds the insider.